Petals of Fun: 9 Flower Activities to Brighten Your Day

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A young child holding a dandelion in their hands

Rhode Island is beginning to burst with color – from the cherry blossom trees on Board Street to the fields of daffodils in Newport. Here is a list of different flower activities to encourage your little ones to get outside and brighten up your spring day! 

Flower Soup

Pick a handful of fresh cut flowers and invite your little ones to sort the flowers into categories: stems, flowers and leaves. Now you have all the ingredients for flower soup!  Next, fill up a bucket with water and mix in your ingredients. This activity can be created using fresh picked flowers or wilting bouquets. Your little ones may choose to dump and pour using ladles, shovels or cups too!

Little hands exploring the parts of a sunflower
Photo taken by Stephanie Greenhalgh

Carnations Science Experiment 

Explore how flowers soak up water with this simple science experiment. All you will need to gather are white carnations, food coloring and small cups of water. Invite your child to pick a color to drop into each container of water. Place your flowers in a sunny spot and don’t forget to make predictions about what might happen next! Watch the magic unfold as the flower petals slowly begin to change color over time.

Lavender Playdough

Invite the smells of sweet lavender indoors with this simple playdough recipe. Mix together flour, salt, water, cream of tartar, oil and dried lavender buds. You may also choose to use a few drops of lavender essential oil to enhance the lavender scent. This activity doubles as a calming and tactile sensory experience for little hands and will last all month long in an airtight container.

Lavendar blooms, a ball of playdough and playdough tools
Photo courtesy of Teach Make Create @teachmakecreate

Cardboard Nature Weaving

Set out on a nature walk and gather wildflowers along the way! You and your little one can carry your found treasures on a piece of recycled cardboard wrapped in rubber bands. Weave your found treasures through the rubber bands as you walk. Other ways to showcase a collection of flowers is by creating a nature bracelet made out of heavy duty tape.

Flowers displayed on a cardboard card
Photo courtesy of Baby Bear Went To Play @baby.bear.went.to.play

Nature Paintbrushes

Flower stems and textured leaves can transform into paint brushes with just a few simple steps. Use flowers gathered from the garden or a nature walk and attach them to a short stick with string. Dip the ends in paint and voilà – your nature paint brushes are ready to dab, sweep or print on any surface. Stems and leaves that made unique paint markings are green pine needles and purple lilac blossoms.

Flower Cutting and Arrangements

Something so simple to set up can lead to some big play! Gather flower stems, an assortment of containers and water to create flower arrangements. If your child can safely use scissors, you may invite them to cut the stems before dropping them in each vase. Next, add water using a small pitcher to ensure the flowers have the nutrients they need to continue to bring you joy for days to come. 

Little hands cutting flower stems in a bowl
Photo courtesy of Tabitha Orchard @tabithaorchard

Flower Masterpieces

Arrange a bouquet of flowers in a vase for inspiration for your next art masterpiece. Invite your littles one to use different art mediums (i.e. watercolor, oil pastels) to capture the colors and texture of the flowers in front of them. Use clipboards or recycled cardboard boxes to build homemade easels and then let your paintbrush soar!

Sunflower art on tabletop easels and flowers in a vase
Photo courtesy of Teach Make Create @teachmakecreate

Pressed Flower Lanterns

Arrange your freshly picked flowers in a show spotting, one-of-a-kind lantern! Simply recycle an old pasta or jelly jar and apply a thin layer of Mod Podge with a foam paintbrush. Carefully place each pressed flower or leaf before adding a final second layer of Mod Podge. Add a piece of twice or a battery operated tea light to bring it to life!

Two pressed flower lanterns
Photo courtesy of Little Pine Learners @littlepinelearners

Flower Mandalas 

Create a nature mandala using bright colorful blooms from your garden. Find a spot outdoors to carefully place each flower in a circular pattern and watch the mandala unfold. A mandala symbolizes hope, love, compassion, beauty, growth, connecting and passion. It is a beautiful way to welcome in the new season of spring!

Colorful flower mandala
Photo taken by Sue Walsh

We hope these 9 simple flower activities are a fun way to encourage outdoor play with your little ones this spring! Be sure to leave your favorite flower activity in the comments below!

Family-Friendly Walks Throughout Rhode Island

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Now that spring has officially arrived and warmer weather is (hopefully) on its way, it’s the perfect time to get outside for a family walk. Pack a backpack with some lunch, snacks, and water, and check out these five great family-friendly walks in Rhode Island.

1. Cumberland Monastery

via Colleen Congdon

Although popular among families for its library and playground, the Cumberland Monastery is also home to several walking trails. A local favorite of mine, the property has plenty of parking and twelve maze-like paths that are easy and fun to navigate. Afterward, the kids can check out a book from the library or take a trip down the slide at the playground, and everyone will be happy!

2. Audubon Society Nature Center and Aquarium

via Colleen Congdon

The Audubon Nature Center and Aquarium is a unique destination. In addition to an on-site museum and aquarium, there is also a beautiful walking path. The path starts at the Palmieri Pollinator Garden and leads to an easy 1/4-mile boardwalk stroll, with glimpses of unique wildlife, such as rare birds and baby raccoons, along the way. At the end of the boardwalk, there are benches perfect for taking a quick break while enjoying a gorgeous view of Narragansett Bay.

3. Cliff Walk

via Colleen Congdon

Undoubtedly, one of the top attractions in Newport is the Cliff Walk, and Spring is an ideal time to visit before the summer crowds arrive. The northern half of the walk starts at the Memorial Boulevard entrance, which is the most family-friendly with its paved paths and flat terrain. Kids and adults alike will enjoy surfer watching, the cool ocean breeze, and the sounds of crashing waves. There is ample parking and conveniently located seasonal restrooms at Easton’s Beach, with additional seasonal restrooms on the trail by the Forty Steps.

4. Sachuest Point National Wildlife Refuge

via Colleen Congdon

Another family-friendly walking destination overlooking the ocean is the Sachuest Point National Wildlife Refuge in Middletown. It offers 3 miles of easy-to-navigate trails, several elevated viewing platforms for rare birds and animals, and a visitor center with a few small exhibits and restrooms.

5. Norman Bird Sanctuary

Norman Bird Sanctuary is also located in Middletown. This wildlife refuge boasts 7 miles of hiking trails, including a universally accessible trail. There is also a curiosity lab for both children and adults. Trail access for adults is $7, children(ages 3-18) is $3, and children under 3 are free. But from now until April 30th, Discover Newport will cover this cost.

Have a favorite family-friendly walking destination not listed? Add it to the comment section below. Happy Spring!

13 Gift Ideas for New Moms (That They’ll Actually Want!)

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Whether you are a first-time mom or a veteran mom, we know the overwhelm that takes over once we are home and navigating our new normal. The daily tasks of laundry, cleaning, and even showering can feel impossible to get done.

These 13 gift ideas for new moms were consciously created for friends and family attending upcoming baby showers or sprinkles to help keep the mom or mom-to-be in mind when purchasing gifts.

Does the baby need another onesie? No. Does mom need help with laundry? Definitely.

13 Gift Ideas for New Moms

Pregnant Mom
Via Canva by Artem Varnitisin

1. Laundry Service

Laundry is inevitable. Help them take a load off with a gift card for a local laundry service.

2. Meal Delivery Service

Continue to reduce the mental load by giving the gift of ready-to-heat and eat prepared foods or preportioned recipe ingredients delivered right to their door. Local options include Feast & FettleFactor, and Home Chef.

3. Flower Subscription

As new moms, we spend unimaginable time in our homes. Please set up a subscription for flower delivery to bring a smile to their face, or gift a gift card so they can coordinate what works best for them. Check out the different options Bloomsy offers for delivery frequency and flower types.

4. Cleaning Service

The gift of a clean house speaks right to a new mom’s heart. Whether for the whole house or 1-2 rooms, this makes a great gift to decrease the cleaning and increase the cuddles.

5. Household Coupons

Maybe mom won’t want outside help with a newborn, but what about a friend? Or a family member? Print out “redeem for ____” coupons and gift them to Mom to cash in when it is convenient for her!

Examples include:

  • Grocery shopping/pick-up
  • Cleaning Task
  • Take the baby for a walk
  • Baby-free coffee and shower (yes, please)

6. Audible Gift Card

Give the gift of audible! A gift card allows moms to toss in their headphones while their baby naps or during a late-night feed and catch up on their reading or favorite podcast.

Hair Blowout
Via Canva by SimpleFoto

7. Dry Bar Gift Card

As new moms, we are lucky to get in our daily shower, never mind a blowout. A gift card and an hour of self-care can do wonders for the first few months of motherhood. Check out the Drybar site for gift card options!

8. Portable Phone Charger

*Mic drop*. The gift of a fully charged phone during those long nights, nursing sessions, or snapping that 100th adorable photo of the day is explanation enough. They will surely thank you!

9. Connection Cards

Motherhood is hard. The challenges couples face in those early months can be difficult to navigate, but with the help of some 1-1 on time, that connection can be catered to. The Adventure Challenge and other collections easily found on Amazon are a great choice.

10. Door Dash or Uber Eats

The meal plan is covered, but what about those “I need…” moments throughout the day? She will be ready to tackle any day by having a few gift cards handy.

Baby Milestone Photo
via iStock by Viacheslav Chernobrovin

11. Mini Photo Printer

The baby book may not be a priority, and it will eventually get done, but in the meantime, Mom can print her favorites in real time. Or print the sweetest milestone photos to mail to relatives (because getting to the store to print is highly unlikely when you’re in between bottle cleaning or endless diaper changes).

 

12. Birthday Cards

Hear me out! A couple of sets of generic birthday cards are perfect for that last-minute OOPS! When you realize the date, it’s Grandma’s birthday. Or when your oldest has a birthday party that didn’t quite make it on the calendar and starts in less than 1 hour.

13. Local Mommy & Me

Rhode Island is lucky to have SO many incredible mommy and me classes for new moms and beyond to attend. Having a gift card to one of the many options will give mom a reason to get out of the house and enjoy some particular time with her little one.

Babies deserve all the love they are about to receive. And moms do, too. We hope you found these 13 gift ideas for new moms helpful!

Dating Your Kids in Rhode Island

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mother and son close together looking happy

Yes, that’s right. Dating your kids in Rhode Island is a thing.  And Rhode Island offers several places that cater to kids of all ages.

The idea of dating your kids may sound strange, outlandish, and counterintuitive to everything we do as parents, but hear me out. It’s well-known that for relationships to sustain and grow over time, we must nurture them, whether it’s our relationship with our partner, friends, colleagues, or even customers.  The same can be said for our children. 

Amidst the hustle and bustle of work, school, sports, and social engagements, we often try to cram in 1:1 time where we can—in the car, going from one commitment to the next, or waiting in line at the store (speaking from personal experience).

Dating, or scheduled bonding time, with each of your children doesn’t have to be a particularly lavish or over-the-top experience.  Instead, it’s about prioritizing time away from other commitments and connections to focus on nurturing the connection that we, as moms, care very deeply about. Dads, too.

Often, I think about how I can inject more 1:1 time with my sons, and researching places to go and things to do makes me eager to get started.  Perhaps some of these will speak to you as well. 

But first, decide how often (once a month, once every other month, etc.) you’d like to schedule dates with your children.  It’s essential to keep it realistic.  Start slow if you have to, and build up to more frequent excursions if you want. The key is putting forth the effort to make this happen.

Babies to Toddlers

It’s never too early to start spending time with your little one, and music classes are often a great way to do so. They encourage socialization for your little one and allow you to meet other moms. Check out our list of music classes for babies and toddlers throughout Rhode Island! 

Indoor play is another option for babies and toddlers, especially if the weather does not cooperate. Places like Play Time in Smithfield, Fawn and Cub Play Space in Cranston, Go Play in East Greenwich, and SharkBay Play Space in West Warwick are great options to explore.

Outdoor playgrounds are always a win, and our directory will point to some cool ones in your area and throughout Rhode Island.

Preschoolers and Early Elementary Kids

Finding activities for your child between the ages of 4 and 7 is not as challenging as you think. Indoor play spaces and playgrounds are still great options, and you now have more opportunities to engage in structured activities. If you have a little one who is really into crafting, consider checking out The Creative Room in Chepachet. It’s a self-serve craft bar where you can create art.

Roger Williams Zoo offers an opportunity to visit, explore, learn about various animals, and engage in outdoor play in their Big Backyard.

For active ones, trampoline parks are always a favorite place to burn some energy. Sky Zone in East Providence, Launch in Warwick, and Aero in Woonsocket are all great options. 

Tweens

The 8-12-year-old age range can be tricky because they know what they like, don’t like, and will not do.  So it’s essential to appeal to their interests.

My sons and I enjoy bowling. Places like CW Lanes in Lincoln and Lang’s Bowlarama in Cranston let us fuel our competitive natures with a few games, munch on some apps, and catch up.  

If you’re looking for a challenge, consider challenging yourself and your child at Level 99, now open at Providence Place Mall. You’ll work together to solve dozens of challenges in a social gaming playground that test your body and mind.   

Top Golf is not just for golfers; it’s for anyone who wants to have a ball. I’m planning my next date with my son, Geoffrey, at their new location in Cranston.

Teens

If you thought the tween age range was tricky, the 13-17 age range is harder. They are busy with school, sports, friends, and life, so squeezing in time with them is a task.

I don’t think you can go wrong with dinner and a movie, as long as you let them pick the movie and the restaurant.  You’re catering to what they want and getting 1:1 time with them—a win for both of us!

R1 Indoor Karting is always a great time if you’re a thrill seeker. A few times around the course will have you primed and ready to enjoy good food and argue who the better driver is—on and off the course! 

Considering we live in Ocean State, it goes without saying that a trip to the beach is always at the top of my mind. And there are several great beaches to choose from.

Have another place to add to this list? Let me know! I’m always looking for more places to go on dates with my kids in Rhode Island, and it’s even better when it’s one to experience with your kids!

Growing a Toddler Friendly Sensory Garden

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A toddler boy watering a sensory garden

Spring is here and it is almost time to start planting in the garden! My toddler and I have gathered our seeds, made a list of the plants we need and dusted off our watering cans. Now, we are eagerly awaiting the day we can get our hands (and toes) in the dirt and plant our garden.

Some may ask: how can toddlers help in the garden?! Easy peasy! It’s a nature-made sensory bin! Our little investigators are gardeners through digging, watering, harvesting and exploring the wildlife that lives right in their backyard – or front yard too! And this spring our plan is to create a sensory garden that we can explore with our five senses: touch, smell, sound, taste and sight.

A sensory garden appeals to the way kids like to learn, which is often through their hands, ears, and eyes. A dried seed pod can become a maraca; a lamb’s ear leaf is like their favorite stuffed animal; a juicy cherry tomato is a sweet treat.” (Abrams, 2022)

Two toddler boys planting in the garden
Photo courtesy of The Farm in RI in Chepachet, RI

Please note all plants mentioned below are nontoxic and safe for little hands.

Touch

We are adding plants that invite us to explore different textures with our sense of touch. We will feel the fuzzy leaves on lamb’s ear and the feathery leaves of dill. Marigolds also have colorful and sturdy petals that can withhold little hands exploring them. If space allows, we will fill a corner of our garden bed with smooth rocks, soft pincushion moss, and succulent ground cover for a pop of color!

Succulents in a rock garden

Smell

The garden beds will be filled with an assortment of herbs that we can smell all season long. Some of our favorite herbs are English lavender, chives and thyme. Another way to add sweet aromas to your garden is by planting flowering vines or cut flowers. A few easy to grow flowers are zinnias, sunflowers and marigolds. Just be careful not to plant flowers that may have thorns or spiky leaves!

Touching feeling the texture of the herbs
Photo taken by Stephanie Greenhalgh

Sound 

The sound of trickling water from a fountain or bird bath will be calming for all of your garden visitors. It might even encourage your local birds to visit for a dip in the bath on a warm summer day! Ornamental grass adds a unique sound to a sensory garden when the leaves touch in the wind. Another simple way to add an element of sound is by hanging a wind chime nearby. Invite your little one to create a wind chime using flower pots, string and beads or make a bee bath using ceramic pots and river rocks. 

A water fountain in a garden

Taste

When you think of a garden, we often think of all the plants we can harvest and eat! There is an assortment of edible plants, herbs and fruits and vegetables that can be planted in your sensory garden. We will be adding our favorite herbs; basil, chives, parsley, mint and oregano. There are also edible flowers that will thrive in a garden like calendula, nasturtiums, and pansies. You can enjoy these flowers with your sense of taste and sight! Other fruits and vegetables that are perfect for little hands to harvest and enjoy are strawberries, cherry tomatoes and carrots. Encourage your toddler to gently pull on a leafy stem and watch an orange carrot pop out of the dirt!

A hand full of fresh strawberries
Photo taken by Stephanie Greenhalgh

Sight

We love to sit back and look at our sensory garden as it grows from sprout to bloom. For this reason, we moved a wooden bench closer to our raised beds to admire our plants and the creatures that love to visit. We like to sit and watch the butterflies and bumblebees land on each sunflower, coneflower and milkweed. Our sensory garden reminds us to slow down and smell the flowers.

Two butterflies landed on a coneflower
Photo taken by Sue Walsh

“A sensory garden for kids can inspire opportunities for education and play. The space can pique their curiosity, creativity, and even aid their cognitive development.” (Abrams, 2022)

We hope you will be inspired to grab your shovels and sun hats and plant a sensory garden along with us this spring! Are you looking for more springtime activities to do with the whole family? Check out these 10 Things To Do in RI This Spring

Family Fun: Must-Visit StoryWalks in Rhode Island

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The rainy weather might be a bummer, but we’re in New England, and it’s time to embrace spring! Keep an eye out for the sun playing peek-a-boo, and when it shows up, grab your rainboots and an umbrella (just in case), and head outside with your kids. There are some awesome must-visit StoryWalks in Rhode Island waiting for you to explore!

The History of a StoryWalk

The StoryWalk® Project was created by Anne Ferguson of Montpelier, VT and developed in collaboration with the Kellogg-Hubbard Library. StoryWalk® is a registered service mark owned by Ms. Ferguson. Find out more here!

What is a StoryWalk?

A story walk takes you outside into nature where you can follow a guided path and read a weather-resistant story with your kids as you walk. It’s a great way to make reading fun and get some fresh air simultaneously!

Who Is a StoryWalk for?

Typically, the age range for a StoryWalk is between 1-7, but all ages are welcome!

Get Outside!

Here is a List of the Must-Visit StoryWalks in Rhode Island!

  1. Warwick City Park – A hike through the woods of Warwick City Park leads the way with a StoryWalk that is now available to read while you trek through the forest. It is a straight path that overlooks the woods, making it easy for little ones to navigate.
  2. Frenchtown Trail – In East Greenwich, RI, you’ll find an exciting StoryWalk supplied by the East Greenwich Free Library. This unique experience takes you on a captivating 1.5-mile hike through the picturesque woods. Each story page encourages readers to engage and interact with the enchanting tale. It’s a perfect blend of outdoor adventure and literary magic! You will want your rainboots for this one!
  3. Mount Hope Farm – In Bristol, there’s a short (but fun) StoryWalk made possible by Friends of Rogers Free Library. After you stroll through the farm and read the story, you will be invited to participate in an interactive adventure. This means the kids can keep the excitement going at home with all sorts of cool activities related to the story.
  4. Warwick Public Library – Warwick Public Library is home to an enchanting StoryWalk set in a whimsical garden. Explore the garden’s colorful flowers, lush greenery, fluttering butterflies, and fascinating insects with your little ones as you read the story. It’s the perfect adventure for a fun-filled spring day! And you can dash through puddles to the library when the spring rain surprises you!
  5. George Hail Free Library – Ride your bike down the Warren bike path to find a StoryWalk waiting there for you. Immerse your young ones in healthy habits by combining exercise and reading on this unique adventure.
  6. Cumberland Public Library – The Monastery at Cumberland Public Library hosts one of the best StoryWalks in Rhode Island. The grounds at the library offer a playground, many hiking trails, the beautiful scenery of the Monastery, and the library, of course. The story takes you on a simple, scenic walk around the library. You might even catch a glimpse of wildlife on this walk!
  7. Weaver Library – This relaxing StoryWalk is located on the lawn of the Weaver Library grounds. This is the perfect short adventure for kids who might not be up for longer walks or hikes in the woods.
  8. Wilcox Park – Located in Westerly, this story walk offers a picturesque setting,  boasting a gorgeous pond and arboretum, perfect for a StoryWalk. Pack a picnic because you will want to spend the entire afternoon here, weather permitting.

Find a StoryWalk!

When you see the sun peak through the clouds, head outside and explore one of these must-visit StoryWalks found in Rhode Island!

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Lighten the Mental Load: 6 Tips for Working Moms

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If you’re like me, you juggle many roles every day — career woman, super (fun, cool) mom of two boys, household manager, and so on.

But let’s talk about that invisible weight we carry on our shoulders: the mental load. I remember a specific conversation with my mom, who said, “I can’t imagine the pressure you feel being bombarded by social media and how to be the perfect mom all day.” And she’s right — our parents’ generation didn’t grapple with the relentless pressure to juggle it all.

In the last four years, I’ve had two children, survived a global pandemic, worked full-time, undergone two job changes, and most recently started my own business.

I can’t say I’ve mastered the art of self-care, but I’ve improved over the last few years and found some actionable tips to change my mental load positively.

Here are 6 tried-and-true tips to help you lighten the mental load:

1) Master the Art of Delegation

Repeat after me, “I don’t have to do it all myself.”

I remember a conversation with my husband before we had kids that boiled down to one simple truth: “If you need help, just ask.” Despite being stubborn, even after 12 years together, I’ve realized the wisdom in this advice.

It’s far more efficient for me to say, “Hey, could you grab the diapers?” than to waste another half-hour on a task he can easily handle.

Delegating can free up valuable space and give you some breathing room. Hire the cleaners, or use the grocery delivery app. Find ways to have someone else take the task off your plate.

2) Embrace the Power of Saying ‘No’

Could you take a step back and assess your to-do list? Only some things need to be done right now, and not everything needs to be done perfectly. Identify your top priorities at work and home and focus your energy on those.

Say no to non-essential commitments and streamline your routines wherever possible to make life more manageable.

3) Experiment with Time-Blocking

Instead of cramming every task into a never-ending to-do list, experiment with time blocking, a productivity technique in which you allocate specific blocks for different activities.

I’ll set a timer for 30 minutes after I drop off my boys at daycare to pick up the house. Then, another for an hour to crank out work-related tasks, and so on throughout the day.

This not only helps you prioritize and manage your time more effectively, but it also provides a sense of structure and predictability to your day.

4) Mama Needs a Minute

I know, we hear this a lot. It’s never as easy as it sounds. Do I want to get up at 5 a.m. to get to the gym daily? No. Has it taken me 18 months since my youngest was born to return to that routine? Yes.

Self-care takes many forms. Sometimes, it’s going to the gym. Sometimes, it’s drinking coffee slowly and reading (or scrolling) before everyone else wakes.

It’s incredible how little 1 hour can make a difference in my day. It’s not always possible, but after my second baby, I realized how much I needed to dedicate time to myself where I could. I’m a better mom because of it.

5) Implement a Daily Brain Dump

I set aside time each day to do a “brain dump,” where I write down everything on my mind — tasks, worries, ideas, you name it.

Externalizing your thoughts can help clear mental clutter and make it easier to focus on priorities. Surprisingly, it often reveals that many worries aren’t as heavy as they initially seem.

6) Build a Support Network

They say it takes a village to raise a child, and the same goes for managing the mental load.

Surround yourself with fellow moms who get it—they’re the ones you can text at 4 a.m. when the baby has been up all night or when your toddler wakes up sick, and you need a game plan for the day.

You don’t have to navigate this journey solo. My mom’s friends have been a lifeline when I needed support, empathy, and even a good laugh to get through the challenging moments. Remember, you’re doing a fantastic job, and it’s okay to ask for help when needed.

Here’s to finding balance, embracing imperfection, and savoring motherhood’s beautiful chaos while making mindful changes to lighten the mental load. You’ve got this!

How to “Baby-Proof” Your Relationship!

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When a couple is expecting a baby, they focus on preparing for the arrival. They take classes and register for the world’s cutest gear. Yet, couples often fail to “baby-proof” their relationship for the changes as they transition from partners to parents.  

Changes to your relationship are inevitable. The postpartum period is stressful, and partners must prepare for their relationship to change after their baby is born. This is something that should be readily discussed and normalized for all new parents. 

Remember that you were two individuals before you became a couple and partners before you became parents. It is important to honor your needs on each of these levels. Any “weak” spots in your relationship will be highlighted during a transitional time like this. As part of your preparation, there are many ways to get support. For example, you can pursue resources, such as books and workshops, that are focused on couples. Some therapists specialize in working with partners during this time.

parents with new baby
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Here are some tips to help “baby-proof” your relationship:

  • Remember, this is not the time for “score-keeping” or comparisons. You are on the same team! The goal is to ensure that the tasks are completed.
  • Communication is key, and it should be clear and concise. Don’t expect mind-reading!
  • Make specific requests using “I” statements. Do your best to avoid always/never statements.
  • Figure out logistics ahead of time where you can.  Create a shared doc that contains information regarding doctors, support persons, and favorite take-out meals.
  • Create a support network and be clear about what will actually support you. For example, if you want help with cleaning and someone only wants to hold your baby, that is not helpful!
  • Overall, when communicating with your support network, utilize language that reflects that you are a team.  An example of this is, “We will discuss that and get back to you.”
  • In addition, it’s important to assume good intent from your partner.  You are both navigating a whole new world and doing it in a sleep-deprived state.
  • Finally, consider doing a daily check-in to share your individual highs and lows for the day. This gives partners a chance to evaluate themselves and assess how their partner is managing the transition.

Most of all, maintain a flexible mindset regarding expectations of yourselves and each other.  The transition to parenthood is intense, but it will get easier.  Starting with a collaborative approach will set you up for success for your whole parenting journey!

10 Things to Do in RI This Spring!

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Spring is (finally) here, which means it is time to fill our calendars with all the fun Rhode Island spring happenings! Whether you’re seeking family-friendly outings or solo adventures, this curated list is your compass to all the fun. We’ve compiled the top 10 things to do in RI this Spring:

 1. Flower Fields: Picturesque & Picking

Tulip Farm
via Cassidy Kamer

Daffodil Days in Newport – Visit Newport and follow their Daffy Adventure Map to soak in all the stunning daffodil fields. These picturesque fields are not for picking, but are the perfect reason to check out Newport before the summer rush. Check their event calendar for all the “daffy doings” to best plan your trip.

Wicked Tulips Flower Farm – With 3 locations to choose from, New England’s largest u-pick tulip farm is a trip you cannot miss this spring. Tiptoe through the fields, capture the beauty and pick your favorites to bring home. Purchase your tickets in advance to avoid missing their short season and memories.

2. Fly A Kite

Whichever way the wind blows, kite flying is simple fun for families to enjoy together. Check out these Top Kite Flying Spots in Rhode Island.

3. PVD Bloom Flower & Home Market

Join fellow plant parents alongside 85 vendors to celebrate the start of spring! An event where you’ll never be judged for buying another plant for your home. Tickets required: get yours here. Bonus: each ticket includes a complimentary beverage.

4. Celebrate National Picnic Day

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April 23rd is National Picnic Day! Pack a picnic, or grab your favorite takeout, and head to one of these Top Picnic Spots in RI this spring! Short on time? Your yard is the perfect spot (say hello to close and clean bathrooms). Rainy day? No problem. Lay down a blanket and enjoy your picnic indoors.

5. Ring in Spring

Ringling Bro’s Circus is coming to the Amica Mutual Pavilion in Providence April 26-28th.

6. RWZ – More Than A Zoo

Two opportunities this spring to explore all that Roger Williams Park Zoo has to offer:

  • Beginning April 7th, Dragons & Mythical Creatures Exhibit opens for families to enjoy over 60 life-size mythical creatures.
  • Visit the Roger Williams Botanical Center April 13-28th for their 13th annual Fairy Garden Days. A magical takeover of greenhouses that will be sure to bring a smile to faces of any age in RI this spring!

7. Rainy Day Fun

We can’t control the weather, but we can control the fun! Grab lunch in Providence and visit Providence Free Play during their Family Days for an afternoon of unlimited arcade fun for $10 per person.

8. Spoketacular Sights

Scenic views loading… thanks to RI Rail Explorers and their coastal railway biking tours available beginning April 27th. Beat the heat and the crowds by adventuring this spring!

9. Spring Markets

Rain or shine, take a stroll through Providence Flea located indoors at Farm Fresh Market Hall on Sundays, 11am-3pm. FREE parking available. Or head south to Mount Hope Farmers Market on Saturdays, 9am-12:30pm located in the Barn.

10. Take A Hike, Winter

Family Hike
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Spring is in the air!

The change in seasons opens more opportunities to get outside and explore all that our little state has to offer. These 7 Tips for Hiking with Littles will boost your confidence in taking on the trails as a family! A family favorite hike of ours is Fry Family Preserve with a great beginner’s trail to trial for first time hiking families.

A Bittersweet End to the Baby and Toddler Years

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Many little things add up to one significant change in life — a bittersweet end to the baby and toddler years.

I remember sitting and watching my kids when they were younger and thinking, “What will I do when they aren’t babies anymore?” I dreaded the thought of it. I loved the baby and toddler years and wanted to keep them as long as possible.

Fast-forward a few years, and my youngest child, my daughter, somehow turned four this week. Her brother is five, turning six later this month. They are preschoolers and Kindergarteners. Their baby faces are nowhere to be found. All of a sudden, my babies looked like “big kids.” Their chubby cheeks, gummy smiles, and squishy legs are now distant memories. The slow days of playing at home, stroller walks, and post-nap snuggles are over.

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The bottles, bibs, burp cloths, sippy cups, sleepsacks, onesies, diapers, activity mats, bouncers, potty seats, and pull-ups have all gradually disappeared over the past few years and months. We put some items into storage, threw a few away, and passed on others to loved ones. The well-loved convertible crib used by both kids, the last remaining baby item in our home, was replaced with a “big girl” bed.

When we go to a restaurant (if we’re feeling ambitious), we don’t ask for a high chair or booster seat. The kids no longer fit in the top section of a grocery cart, so we don’t need to pack or haul the stroller wherever we go. 

While leaving behind and entering a new phase of life can be emotional, I haven’t experienced the heartache I used to anticipate. I’ve found quite the opposite. My husband and I frequently agree that this is our favorite stage of parenthood yet, thus, a bittersweet end.

We get to watch our kids experience things for the first time like we once did. We are learning how to read and write their names, taking out books from the library, and getting visits from the tooth fairy. The fun of going to birthday parties, trying new sports and activities, and making friends begins. On weekends, we go for hikes and walks, do puzzles, cook, read books, and have family game nights together.

We’ve had the privilege of watching our kids transform from squishy babies and toddlers into little people with unique interests and personalities (sometimes big ones). They share their view of the world with us and ask thought-provoking questions. They remind us to find delight in the simple things.

With the end of the baby and toddler years, life with them keeps getting better.

Through this transition, I’ve learned that each stage of parenthood brings a new set of joys. No stage lasts forever, and each one matters just as much as the one before it. 

I’ve also noticed that the older my kids get, the faster time seems to fly. So, I plan to fully embrace this season of life, fondly and with appreciation for the previous ones and excitement for those to come.

So goodbye to the baby and toddler years, and thanks for the memories and lessons.

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